Check out this short 5 minute ASP.NET Gridlookup video that show you how to data bind and setup multiple selection:
New ASP.NET Grid LookUp Control
The new ASPxGridLookup control is part of the DXperience v2010 volume 2 release.
The ASPxGridLookup editor combines the functionality of the ASPxDropDownEdit and ASPxGridView controls to allow end-users to easily select values from a dropdown grid containing lookup items.
The ASPxGridView control is seamlessly embedded into the editor's dropdown window, providing the editor with a powerful customizable data-processing and data-representation functionality.
Learn more here: New ASP.NET GridLookup Control (coming in v2010 vol 2)
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